Life is funny. In the times where it’s even-keeled, we just sort of chug along, don’t we, not really thinking about much of anything except our own plans. Whether it’s work, the weekend, what to have for dinner – it’s just so easy to be complacent. I think this is where most of us spend a majority of our time, and honestly? I think it’s a great place to be.
But then Life comes along and kicks your ass. It could be the death of a beloved pet, something awful happening with your career; your partner or kids becoming ill; your parents’ aging and myriad issues that brings; or maybe it’s a combination of crises. Whatever the “thing” is, you’re all of a sudden thrust into Survival Mode, where you can’t even see past the day or hour at hand. Sure, Life is still happening, but it’s all kind of a blur now.
Life can also come along and bestow upon you some of the most amazing experiences you can imagine. It might be the best year you’ve ever had at your job; it might be that you’re marrying your best friend; it might be that you’re finally going to have a kid that you’ve been waiting for your whole life. Whenver “things” like this happen, Life seems to fly by in a whirlwind of activity – stressful in its own way, as most of Life is still happening, too. Laundry still has to be done. 🙂
This has been my year so far.
Let’s get the crud out of the way first. Our beloved Pommie, Dudley, left us on February 25. He’d been my constant companion for the last 5 years and 9 months. He very rarely left my side, and his absence created a loss I wasn’t quite ready for. —————————— During this time, we were also adjusting to having my mom here in Fond du Lac – she moved up here in January, as it was clear she couldn’t live by herself anymore. So we set her up at a lovely apartment in an assisted living space. She was chugging along until the middle of February, when she passed out after having what turned out to be her last cigarette – her oxygen level was at 60% and the docs discovered her COPD was now advanced emphysema. She was in the hospital for 5 days and afterward, needed more services. All seemed to be going okay until this past Thursday, when we were at the grocery store and she took a terrifying fall, which crushed her shoulder bones and two vertebrae, plus part of her tailbone. She will be in a rehab facility for 8-10 weeks, and is in a great deal of pain. All of this is compounded by her worsening dementia. —————— Lastly – this may sound like absolutely nothing compared to the two other “things” I’ve mentioned, but we also said good-bye to Carol, my beloved 1997 Toyota Corolla, on February 21. She had been my trusty (VERY trusty!) sidekick since May of 1998. That car saw me through the birth of my second niece (and some very smooshy memories of my first niece’s experiences with her new sister); my divorce; my dad’s death/funeral; and served as our “second” car when Brian and I got our van. She did manage to reach 200,000 miles before we parted ways, and her final act was a donation to our local public radio station (via the Car Talk Vehicle Donation Program). I’ll be honest – I cried. I had so many amazing adventures with this car and for a while, it seemed like I’d have her with me forever.
BUT!! BUT!! YOU GUYS!!
Holy smokes – it has been the most amazing year EVER for my art. EVER. Since January 1, this is what I’ve done:
- I created 30 pieces (one per day, January 1-30) for the 30x30x30 show at Var Gallery (which hangs this week!). This was my first-ever real “collection” of works. I created pieces that I rust-dyed and then stitched, followed by a layer of beeswax. Here’s one of them, for a sneak peek:
- I finished/installed my two shows at UW-Fond du Lac that I created specifically for this site: The Collograph in Minature/Pervasive Plastic. This opportunity, which was so generously given to me by art lecturer Wendi Turchan, was a dream come true – to be able to show on a university level was something I never imagined I’d be able to do. I also created pieces that were site-specific, and I’m so proud of them. Here’s one of my collographs and a piece from the Plastic show:
- On my third attempt, I was finally accepted into the Small Print Show at UW-Parkside! My piece, A Canopy of Branches, was chosen to be one of the prints. Unfortunately, the weather and my health were both icky the night of the reception and I was unable to drive to Kenosha to see the awesome show. But here is my piece!! I’m so happy I got in on this one, because it’s a reduction linocut I’m really proud of.
- I am currently in The Humor Show at Riverwalk Art Center with my friends Nicci Martin and Susan Fiebig! I am so happy to be one of the three chosen for this exhibit by curator/owner Kathryn Dreifuerst. I can guarantee that this is going to be not only hilarious, but just a fabulous show. My portion of the show is called Bad Hair Daze, which is comprised of eight different embroidered collages featuring horrible ’80s hairstyles (here’s one of them!). Our reception is this Friday night from 5-8 p.m. – hope to see you there! 😀The “She’s so Unusual”, from the Bad Hair Daze collection (embroidery, collage)
Lastly – I have to thank everyone who’s made this year, as trying as it’s been, so great. Firstly – my family. They’ve really rallied and helped so much with my mom. Everyone has her back and it’s been so wonderful having their awesome support. I rely so much on my sister, Jenn, because no one knows me better and of course, we have the same mom. 🙂 Our “sister days” have been a life-saver. Also, my art friends – what a wonderful group of people I know in Fond du Lac and the Fox Cities. I know the best people in the world and I’m so proud and honored to call them my friends. 🙂 They have been so understanding when I’ve had to cancel things due to illness this year or last minute things that have come up with my mom. I can only hope to be half as understanding as these great people. I could name names, but you know who you are. ❤
And lastly – my amazing husband, Brian. To say that I couldn’t do any of this without him is the Understatement of the Year. He has been my rock and I am so grateful and honored to be his wife, and astounded by his unflinching generosity in everything he does. He’s truly the best. ♥